Children everyday have to suffer the consequences of a "Another Dead Beat Dad" not paying his child support. Is he not partly responsible for the furthering of the child's education and social interaction in society? YES he is. In a joint effort with the other parent, there should be a happy medium in which the children do not have to continue being another "VICTIM" of these irresponsible actions of the "father". Although there are funds and grants available to lower income families, whether they are single mom's with kids or not, why should everyone else have to pay for the dead beat to continue not supporting what he helped produce. They have no problem seeking out the women, inseminating them, ditching them and then having society feel like they are the victim of circumstance. It is not about the man or women, it is clearly about the children. The children need to able to attain a good education along with the social activities, that will help them develop the social skills needed in society. Also, there are many organizations, ie sports that have the "male" coach that may help mold the child, especially when there is no "father/male figure" in there life.
I am sending this out as a reminder to my ex, the father of our children together that YOU have a responsibility to start paying child support, you don't see them, call them, write them. Why are you making the same mistakes your father made with you and your sister? No more excuses as to why you are not, or have not thus far. If you are not paying because you do not have a job, then GET ONE. If your business is not making any money, then GET A JOB that pays the bills. No one will judge you for giving up on your business, you tried and it failed. You will come across more of a "MAN" if you get a job and start to contribute something towards all the goals and aspirations your children have. Financially, together we could give them the world and then some. They would never look back and say our dad didn't care about our life today or our future tomorrow, nor did he care if we were involved in sports or camps. The children will look back and say "our" parents did all they could for us and we so appreciate them for making US a priority.
Do what is right Darron Schofield and start taking responsibility for the two beautiful children that you helped create. Take the faith you say you have and ask yourself if Jesus would approve of your actions. I think you know what the answer would be.
People, not only for my children, but all the children that continue to be "VICTIMS" of what really is a crime, let's get together and stop the crimes from happening.
